The sex addiction

Are you (or were you) addicted to sex? – no

You said so. – Yes.

Not everyone who says they’re addicted to sex is.

Which doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

The excuse

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Celebrities are supposedly just human too. Which is why celebrities who are in a relationship sometimes have sex outside of this relationship. You cheat. You are having an affair. Whatever you call it, they do. And because they are obviously only human, they try to talk their way out of it. In contrast to some other people, however, it is not always so easy for celebrities to talk their way out of it, because they might be captured in images and sound, such as sticking their tongue down their throat, putting their hand on their ass or who they were Have let genitals slide into each other. Stupid. What do you do there?

Still, you don’t admit that you just built a lot of shit. Then you were just sick. Yes, you know how it is with the stars of this world, they take drugs and drink their pears, all addicts before the Lord, and if we know one thing, it is that an addicted celebrity always has a good reason for this addiction, namely that he had it hard as a child, that he had it hard as a star, that he couldn’t deal with fame, that he couldn’t deal with the depression, that everyone else did too. And then he goes to a rehab where he lies by the pool next to the other addicts fallen falling stars and all is well. And he doesn’t have to take responsibility. Well, that can be transferred very well to sex. And he doesn’t have to take responsibility. Because that’s what it’s all about.

So sex addiction is a very welcome excuse for fucking around.

And sex addiction is also an addiction that is associated with a lot of prestige: after all, it shows how potent I am, how masculine when I am a man, how free and unbound and emancipated when I am a woman. Sex addiction, yes, yes, that’s something you can brag about. The stars do it every now and then. And the alleged ones. I think of Nico Schwanz.

The addiction

But sex addiction is actually an addiction. And with it a disease. And maybe one or the other of the people listed really suffered from sex addiction. But the word “suffered” is crucial.

We speak of an addiction when it can no longer be controlled. This can be seen, for example, in the fact that other areas of life are neglected. When the work is no longer done properly, when the family comes up short, when everything revolves around what one is addicted to.

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In many cases this has financial consequences because most addictions are expensive. But that doesn’t matter to a certain extent. Because you need that. Because if you don’t have that, then you feel bad, shit, sick. With many of the so-called substance-related addictions, i.e. the classic drugs, there is massive physical withdrawal with fever and chills and whatnot. In behavioral addictions, when one is addicted to a certain behavior, the reaction to the withdrawal is often no less bad. Nervousness, tremors, aggression, etc. It is no longer possible without it. And there has to be more and more.

The gambling addict has to play. It’s not about pleasure, it’s not about winning, he has long known that he can only lose. Even if he doesn’t admit it to himself. Can’t admit.

Even the sex addict is no longer concerned with lust and its satisfaction. It’s no longer fun. When he’s having sex, he thinks about how to get to the next sex. If he jerks …

The ejaculation

Men cum.

Men like to cum.

Men think that’s what it’s about: making them cum.

Even those who also think that you, dear women, should come to your orgasm. The men’s minds are still buzzing: Cumshot, otherwise it was nothing.



Men are, I think I’ve said it before, fixated on looking. Most. More like the visual types. Since people tend to be more of the visual types, men are so especially the visual types. Say: What they do not see, they do not believe. While this leads to such abstruse appearances as adult people, for example, who actually believe that the earth is flat (because when they look over it, it looks pretty flat), this rather masculine quality is also largely responsible for that In porn, the man is only allowed to ejaculate in the woman as an exception. Yes, that falls under “kink” when a man looks at something like that. So the man looks while another comes in a woman. If that is visible. And there we have the problem. From a male point of view. Because you can’t see anything there. Don’t worry, the clever man has come up with something for that too: Cream Pie. One man squirts in the woman’s vagina (and sometimes the anus), pulls out his penis, and the camera shows the sperm running out of the woman so that the other man can see it.

Otherwise, the sperm splashes over the bellies, breasts, mouths, buttocks and other parts of the woman’s body. Do you? Yes we see.


The fact that the man sees what he is doing, what comes out of him, that what comes out, his sperm, and that he can distribute it virtually anywhere and at will on the woman, is of course also a symbol of his power over the woman. Especially when he’s about to squirt in the woman’s face. While he would probably find it disgusting himself, another man or even himself would ejaculate in his face. And when he does, he feels that it is a humiliation. What some men like, of course, no question about it, but others like other methods of being humiliated as well. And the mere fact that a man can feel humiliated by being sprayed or drinking his own sperm or the like, regardless of whether he finds it turning on or not, shows that sperm is power. Ejaculation is a show of force.

Men want power. Men want to see their power confirmed. Men want to affirm themselves in their power. Power over women. Also about other men, of course, but mostly about women. That’s why semen doesn’t matter.

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That’s why the worst thing that can happen to a man is that he doesn’t cum.

If he doesn’t get high, that’s pretty bad. For him. But when he’s got his erection, he’s having sex, but nothing comes out … Then that doesn’t count. By the way: You can ejaculate without an erection. After all.

Nowadays everything is rated on the net. Medicines too. And there are prostate medications, which have a common side effect that there is no longer any ejaculation. Either because there is retrograde ejaculation (the ejaculate flows into the bladder and will be pissed out next time in the toilet), or because there is simply no ejaculation. And in the forums they, the men, grumble about the drug, that that’s the very last thing. Would you rather spend half an hour in the toilet and let it dribble leisurely and get up every half an hour at night than stop squirting?

The men don’t know that nothing will come out if they don’t look. Because it feels exactly the same. So if he weren’t indulging in his porn fantasies, that wouldn’t be a problem. But it is. Solid.…